Your born inside of everyone and you age very well. Your presence lies inside of everyone but is not always felt, and in many when your presence is known it may never leave. In some you last a lifetime and others just a few days. You are a great motivator and help many to over come fears and obstacles they never thought were possible. There are many levels to over confidence from very small to helping you make new friends at school or try a new sport you have never played. Then there is a very high level, which can convince many to take crazy, unnecessary risk such as yelling at your boss cause you think your better then them even if you may not have the same qualifications or trying to hunt for your own food with no prior training. I guess you could say with you there comes many positives and negatives, but in many you lead to a fake false hope. A temporary spark in a higher self-esteem that may lead to bad judgements a ultimately a huge fall in ones actual self-esteem. In many lives you are either the cause cause of the rise or fall of the way a person comes to fell about themselves. If people can not see your presence you can be dangerous, but if they can recognize it then you can be prevented and turned to a positive. We'll do our best to remember that positive impact you may have on a life and try to hold that as our lasting memory.
Endnote: This was an example I got from reading the article "High sel-esteem is not always what its cracked up to be" on the science daily website where they talk about a jump in confidence that may not be from a particular source can lead to a jump in high self-esteem that can cause laziness and for lack of a better term big headedness. This all stems from a person having confidence about things they know nothing about, which eventually will hurt them and ultimately lower there self-esteem. An example of how high self-esteem will not always lead to success.
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